Baru keluar gua...

Assalam...
Lama sungguh mrs tan bertapa...
Sampai kena halau la dgn jin yg sama2 bertapa tu...hehehehe

Nway this is my 1st post for 2013...
Byk yg berlaku...
Suka dan duka silih berganti...

1st qtr of 2013 antara momen2 duka for mrs tan ialah kembalinya ke pangkuan Illahi anak kepada cousin sister mrs tan di Melaka...
Baru berusia 25thn dan baru shj menamatkan pengajian...
Tapi Allah swt lebih menyayangi nya...
Pergi dengan kanser yang extreme...

Selepas itu adik ipar kepada schoolmate mrs tan pula meninggal selepas melahirkan her 1st child...
Baby selamat tetapi ibunya pergi meninggalkannya...
Sebak hati mrs tan tgk suaminya sedu sedan sambil menjiruskan air mawar dipusara allahyarhamah...
Moga syahidnya diterima...Amin

Then my childhood friend pula kehilangan tempat bergantung...
Suaminya pergi meninggalkan beliau bersama 3 orang cahayamata...
Yg bongsu baru berusia 3 bulan...

Apa pun life must go on...
Besar atau kecil dugaan itu hanya Allah yg Maha Mengetahui...

Babai...

Sukanya I...

Dapat gak jumpa irma hasmie in person...
Inilah hasil seminggu berholiday di Tawakal Hospital...
mrs tan berada ditempat n masa yang sesuai...hehehe
TQ irma sudi gak bergambo eventho mrs tan sgt comot dengan seluar tido kotak2...

Gambar mmg xmemuaskan coz pakai hp dara...
mrs tan masa tu tgh lepak kat luar lobby sambil tunggu en. tan hisap rokok...
Boring asik terperap kat bilik je kan...
Si dara syok la duduk teman mrs tan kat hotel...
WIFI laju...
mrs tan duduk sebulan pun dia suka...:-)

Memotivasikan Diri...

Alhamdulillah...
mrs tan berjaya jugak attend...
Bahagia Membahagiakan by Prof. Dr Muhaya on 25/10/2012 at CAC UIA...
Praised myself for being able to attend it ALONE...
mrs tan ada sikit lack of confidence so xpenah imagine I would be able to do so...
But I DID IT bebeh...:-)
Registar sorang, makan sorang, gi solat sorang ok je pun...
Selama ni segan la apa la...
Alasan je semua kan padahal xde benda pun...

Overall seminar ni sgt worth it...
Prof. Dr Muhaya mengkagumkan...
mrs tan x mengantuk walau sekelumit pun walopun xde member nak gossip kat seblah...
Insyaallah this is my baby step...
Moga lepas2 ni ada lagi seminar yg akan mrs tan akan attend...
In order to gain more knowledge and to be a better person...
Insyaallah...

Then on 8 & 9/12/2012 I sent my teruna to MAP by Tengku Asmadi...
Seminar 2 hari di Wisma Belia Jln Syed Putra...
Moga teruna dpt mengaplikasikan semua input hasil dari MAP...
Moga teruna dapat masuk dlm list anak2 asuhan MAP yang cemerlang dan berjaya...
Insyaallah....

Gambar xde...
Sebab - SEGAN...hehehe

Next is giliran dara pulak...

PATI dan PADI...

mrs tan xpernah ada maid before...
Pernah rancang to get one 3 years ago...
Dah submit all related forms and payment...
Tapi had to cancel...
Sebab main purpose was to care for bb Naqib...
But since dia xsempat melihat dunia the plan was cancelled...

Tapi for our RET kami ambil foreign workers...
Infact they have been here lama and worked together with en. tan in the F&B line...
Lepas en. tan resigned from his old job everybody decided to follow him...
So bila kami buka RET kami dah ada workers...
Tapi we make sure that we hire them legally...
We have 9 of them for almost a year...
Then masalah mula dtg...

One of our staff lari recently...
Punca nak minta gaji lebih...
Walaupun sebenarnya their salary adalah bersih without having to pay anything...
We provide them with food kat RET, rumah provided, electricity and air kami settled...
Bestkan mrs tan keje macam2 kena potong...:-)
Tapi for this particular staff still xcukup...

So on the last day dia kerja shift pagi...
Dah mlm sikit dia call en. tan kata nak berhenti keje...
Dgn harapan en. tan will increase his salary...
Then en. tan kata ok kalau nak resign but u must tender your resignation...
Nak tau apa kata dia???...
Dia suruh en. tan issue him a letter allowing him to work with someone else when his permit is under us...
Walawei hensem nyer muka dia...
The next day xdtg keje...
Housemate kata semua barang dah xde...
In other words udah lari...
TQ MD ANOWAR HOSSAIN for your attitude...

Since we have them legally bila dah lari kena la buat legally kan...
mrs tan called Immigration Dpt and was told to give the Dpt a letter about this and to fill up a form and can go to their office in Damansara to get his name cancelled from our Co...
Rupanya info yg diberi TAK CUKUP...

Actual step are as follows:
1. Buat Police Report pasal dia lari (this is important coz 1st question yang immigration dpt ask is - dah buat report?-
2. Buat own Co letter about the same issue
3. Download Immigration Dept's form and fill-up
4. Buat bank draft atas nama Ketua Pengarah Jabatan Imigresen (RM500)- apparently ni boleh claim balik from insurance yg majikan ambil earlier...
5. Since ours is Bangladeshi, kami kena pergi PUTRAJAYA - Presint 2
6. Go to Level 2, ambil no.
7. Pass all your doc to the specific counter and wait for the officer to key-in all the details and go the CASHIER to make your payment
8. Then go back to the counter you went earlier to collect your acknowledgement copy
9. By now nama worker yg dah lari dah dikeluarkan from your Co.'s list. He/she is officially a PATI now

Personally mrs tan rasa semua process is menyusahkan majikan...
Pekerja kami lari tapi kami dibebankan dengan pembayaran yang tinggi dan pembaziran masa nak kesana sini...
Dia senang2 lari kami kena keluar duit lagi nak cancel nama dia...
Tapi sebagai rakyat yg patuh pada undang2 kami buat juga...

Kepada Immigration Dpt TOLONG kerapkan lagi penguatkuasaan...
Moga dapat pantau kehadiran semua PATI dan tolong beri kami majikan yg sah justifikasi yg adil...
Kami yang menggaji PADI yang mengikut saluran undang2 yg sah...
Bukan majikan yg hire PATI spt yg byk berleluasa diluar sana...

Elok2 dah PADI (pendatang asing dengan izin)...
Terus jadi PATI (pendatang asing tanpa izin)...

Sekian...

IJN...

Passed by IJN just now...
Ternampak banner besar yg tertulis...

WE HELP TO HEAL MILLIONS OF HEARTS...

Mmg benar...
And one of the heart yg IJN pernah heal was my doter's heart...
They mend the hole and Alhamdulillah dengan izin-Nya...
Dara sihat walaafiat...
Minta dijauhkan sebarang ujian to her lagi...

I've stayed there for 2 weeks when dara went thru her op...
She was 2yo that time...
Opt was done one day b4 her 2nd b'day...
13/06/2002 to be exact...
Ingat lagi every nite pergi amik kerusi lipat untuk tidur next to her...
Pagi2 pergi return...
Then tunggu en. tan to come over hantar food and tukar turn to look after dara...

Hari yg paling sedih sepanjang that 2 weeks was when we both sent her to the OT...
I have to change to the OT garment and then carry her to the OT...
Baringkan dia kat katil and let the doc kasi bius to let her sleep...
Then baru keluar from the room sambil nurse tenangkan...
Suruh byk doa sambil tunggu kat waiting area...
Ingat juga lagi when Atuk Jalil datang and brought both of us to breakfast...
Then my elder sis dtg untuk temankan kami sampai dara keluar from the OT...

Lepas OT dara was sent to the ICU for 24 hours observation...
Nak tggu ada complication or not right after the op...
While she was in there mrs tan cuma masuk tgk less than 5 times...
Sebab tak sampai hati dia asik hulur tgn suruh dukung sedangkan wires were all over the body...
So that nite mrs tan joined other mothers/fathers lepak kat TV area...
mrs tan still remember on the same nite one of the mother was called to go down to the ICU if not mistaken...
Bila dia naik atas balik sambil menangis and informed all of us that her boy dah tak ada...
Really painfull...

Stayed there for almost 2 weeks but I have seen a lot...
I've also witnessed ibu yg disuruh balik bcoz dah tak ada apa yg doc boleh buat with her baby...
mrs tan and dara pun pernah sebilik with an old lady with her young doter...
Kalau xsilap datang all the way from Utara with only RM50 in her hand and not knowing how long she will need to stay at the hospital...
Husband pun xikut coz kena jaga anak2 yg lain...
Xpasti what happened to her and her doter now...
Moga semuanya selamat for her...

TQ so much to all doctors and nurses yg terlibat dlm proses yg melibatkan my dara...
Antaranya kalau mrs tan tak silap ialah Dr Ezani, Dr Jeswant Singh (handsome doc ni..hehehe), Dr Faizal dan byk lagi...
Maaf dah 10 years berlalu...
mrs lupa juga sebab faktor usia :-)...
Moga anda semua sentiasa dlm rahmat Allah...
Teruskan usaha anda dlm membantu mereka yg memerlukan...
Salute to IJN...

Dara & UPSR

Alhamdulillah...
Dara dah dapat result...
OK tapi kalau ada lebih lagi effort boleh jadi excellent...
Tapi itu rezeki yang dah tertulis...

Mama proudly accept it as my belated b'day present as promised...
Tahniah...

For my teruna...
Get ready from now for your PMR next year...
Be prepared to be reminded and nag and nag and nag by your mama...hehehee

Sambal Hitam Pahang..

Ohemgee...
Oh my gucci...
Ohhh my sambal hitam...
Haaa yg ni baru betul...

Dapat resepi dah blog mamawandiha...
TQ ye sebab share resepi...

Gigih mrs tan buat sambal hitam tadi...
Alhamdulillah berjaya merealisasikannya...
Buah belimbing buluh pun xbanyak...
Raya hari tu petik kat Lubuk China...
Ada la dlm besar 2 ibu jari...
Dapat 7 to 8 biji...
Itu lah yg mrs tan kerjakan untuk buat sambal...
Jom tgk bahan2...

Bahan2:

7 to 8 biji belimbing buluh
Cili padi ikut suka
Segenggam ikan bilis
6 ulas bawang merah - 3 hiris halus and 3 lagi tumbuk halus
Kicap kipas udang ikut selera
Garam n gula untuk perasa
Minyak untuk menumis

Method:

Belimbing buluh letak dlm periuk and keringkan airnya sampai buah seakan kehitaman
Tumbuk lumat cili padi, bawang merah dan ikan bilis
Panaskan minyak and tumis wangi bawang merah yg dihiris halus
Masukkan bahan tumbuk/kicap/gula garam - mrs tan guna kicap sikit je sebab dah habis
Kecilkan api dapur dan terus gaul sampai kering
Toskan minyak, hidang n makan dengan nasi panas
Nikmat... :-)

Abaikan rupa yang xmeletup ni...
Bak org putih kata "don't judge a book by its cover"...
Cuba try test mesti xmenyesal punya...